When you get bad news about your job it is perfectly acceptable for your wife to take the news harder than you do. Don't feel bad, you will get your time to be upset after you spend time helping her cope.
Yes not getting a job hurts, but it can hurt your wife more. It hurts her pride. It hurts her because she knows it hurts you.
That is all I can say about this one, there is more of a story but I cannot divulge it. Sorry
I was married May 2nd 2009. As a new husband I am learning a lot about being married. These are the rules of marriage as I have learned them. Of course eventually one of the rules might end up being: don't blog about your relationship with your wife...