This is good advice that I received during premarital counseling. I wish I would have listened.
On the day of this original post, my wife came home upset and instead of listening and sympathizing, I went into guy mode and offered a litany of suggestions on how to fix the problem and how she could have done things differently.
She, of course, felt devastated that I seemed to take the other side of the argument. All she wanted was support from me and instead of listening I made it seem like she was wrong.
Always support your wife. Always.